So, I promised to blog about solutions, and not just problems. And, after a lot of thought, here's what I've got.
I think the biggest point that I took away from my last post is that the Invisible Hand reflects the needs and desires of the individuals who participate in the market. So, I've used this as the foundation for how we might approach solutions to our economic crisis and, more specifically, what I need to do as an individual. After listening to all the talk about the cause of the economic crisis, the bottom line is pretty clear: too many of us spent more than we could afford and we hit the tipping point that turned the many individual debt situations into a national and international economic crisis. We can debate who's fault it is (Main Street's for taking the credit or Wall Street's for giving the credit) but regardless, those of us who are equipped with this knowledge are responsible for applying it.
That being said, I think our first step is that we all have to take a really hard look at our financial situations. We have to ask this question and be really honest with ourselves when we answer: Do I have the money to buy [fill in the blank]? And, btw, the definition of "money" here, lest it's not completely clear, is real-time, real cash and not credit. Now, I'm going to speak from personal experience and say that, sometimes, this isn't enough. I can't count how many times I've asked myself this question, answered "no" and still purchased something, and not even something necessary. So, I've been asking myself, why does this happen? For me, a lot of rationalizing happens. My definition of "need" can be become very flexible: Well, I can't walk around work with a pair of scuffed up pumps, I need to look professional to compete in the workplace. My definition of "money" can become very flexible: : I know the money is coming in on Tuesday when I get paid, so I'm not really paying on credit. And, for me, a host of social and emotional factors can come into play.
Also, it's embarassing to admit, but at 31 I still sometimes struggle with the concept of being "cool", the more youthful cousin of fitting in and being good enough. And, this brings me to something that I believe is more at the heart of the matter, at least for us Americans. I believe that our culture thrives on the use of economy to stoke the fires of social competition. Meaning, that we live in and promote a culture where nothing is ever good enough and, thus, none of us is ever good enough. And, this doesn't just apply to 31 year old ladies with residual self-esteem issues. I am flabbergasted when I hear mothers talk about the stresses of buying school clothes for their children, or throwing the best birthday party with impressive enough gift bags, or not wanting to give a birthday gift that is considered insufficient. Or having to find the best school, the best camp, the best tudor, the best gymnastics, dance, piano, band, soccer, football, baseball, karate...the list goes on. We have all "bought" ourselves a culture of competition of things. Rather than focusing on our fundamental, internal selves and promoting a lifestyle of acceptance and support that cannot be taken from us, we have built a bubble upon which our self-worth is precariously balanced and inextricably tied into material belongings that we, so obviously now, cannot sustain. And, while this applies to "Main Street" folks, it seems to me it is only magnified substantially by the people at AIG, Lehmen Bros, etc....who were so willing to sacrifice other people's livelihoods to provide the lifestyle they required. I'm not suggesting we sympathize with the rat bastards. I'm in full support of yanking their golden parachutes. But, they are humans, and I have to wonder if they weren't seduced into a more extreme version of what we are facing and that resulted in their exteremely poor judgement and behavior. This is a different blog entry, though.
So, from my perspective and for my own personal experience, I believe the bedrock of a long term solution to this problem is changing our paradigm about "stuff". This is a journey I've been working on a few years now, but there are always things along the way that contribute to your progress and I view this moment in our history as a particularly significant one because it is shared by so many. And, I think the real message here is that: We are good enough. We are good enough just as we are, right now, right this minute, with our without the stuff we have, regardless of our financial situations. We are just plain ok. And, that's good enough.
And, building upon that we have to integrate this belief into our daily lives. For example, living in DC with a social group of, for the most part, affluent social peers, even going to dinner can become an issue. It is not uncommon for me to spend $50-80 dollars (on 1 person) while out with friends at a nice restaurant. Now, I'm not saying that this in and of itself is bad. Except that, the reality is, I can't afford to do that as frequently as I do. The reality is, this needs to be a special occassion for me. Which means, thanks to a wonderful array of friends, I am going to have to learn to say "No" more than I say "Yes". And, because I happen to enjoy facilitating social events, I'm going to have to learn to stop myself from instigating certain types of social events before I've thought through whether I can really afford them. But, what I face, even as I write this, is that it does make me feel a little "less than" to admit that I can't afford the lifestyle I've been living. But, that's the point, isn't it? That is the bottom line of the change I'm proposing we have to make. We first have to admit that we can't afford the lifestyles we've been living, and then we have to be ok with that. We have to find a way to feel good enough even in light of this "failure". This, I think, will be hard. But, this, I think, will be a significant accomplishment for our social psyche. And, this, I think will require support from one another. Perhaps this is optimistic, but perhaps the fabric of our American community can turn from being so erroded by our current situation and can be fortified by the support we can give one another, that we are just right, just as we are.
Ok, enough on that particular topic. Beyond this, there is another thing we need to do. As I said in the beginning of this blog, the market reflects what we as participants in the market do. That said, we can't operate on the assumption that our financial instituttions will employ the ethics that we would expect or approve of. So, we as individual consumers are going to have to start making conscientious, intentional choices about where we put our money and what we do with it. This is hard because, who has time really to figure this stuff out? But, just like making environmentally friendly choices (or choices that reflect whatever beliefe we have), we have to know what we're supporting with our wallets. This is the primary way that we can hold them accountable. And, just like many investments, it will take time and lots of people to make it happen. But, it can happen. We just have to stick with it. If we want the price of hybrid cars to go down, we have to buy more hybrid cars, not less of them, so that the companies will make more hybrid cars and we can then gain the benefit of scale. Same with the banks. If banks are participating in operations we don't approve of, we have to go to another bank. We have to show them that there is no market for what they are offering and, eventually, they will have to provide other products and services. This certainly isn't the end all, be all. But, it's the leverage of the Invisible Hand at work.
We can also take civil disobedience as an approach. We can protest/march/sit in on institutions who are promoting and pursuing tactics that we take issue with. This may speed up their response. But, it will take our time and committment. And, again, we're voting with our feet. If we want it enough, we'll do it. If we don't....we know what can happen.
On an individual note, we can make other choices to protect ourselves. Related to credit, people with good credit were amazed at how their creditors kept piling it on. But, you know, you don't have to take it. You can, again, say "No". Call the bank when they give you another extension to your line of credit and say "No". You can exercise this control over your financial situation. And, it's a responsible thing to do. It shows you understand your financial situation and the risks involved. It also shows you have a sense of what is enough for you.
And, lastly, because I've gone on long enough, I would refer people to an Oprah show from this week (I know, I know). Ali Velshi, CNN senior business correspondant, gives a great basic and understandable explanation of what is going on. Then, Suze Orman gives some great basic advice about how to manage your money right now. Here's the link to the show summary on Oprah's website: http://www.oprah.com/slideshow/oprahshow/20081003_tows_economy/1
And, here' s a summary of Suze's rules:
1. Protect your savings
2. Pay on your credit card debt
3. Get health and term life insurance
4. Continue contributing to your retirement
5. "Stop spending what you can't afford!"
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